Having a long-distance relationship (if we are talking about true love with serious long-term intentions) first of all it is important to understand - YOU LOVE! YOU! LOVE! Not to show, prove or demonstrate something to someone. You love for yourself, not for your partner. Of course, you miss him/her, you want to see the person infinitely and sooner, but that is how things work out. The Universe has its own plans for you and your relationship.
So since temporary stay at a distance is inevitable, take care of yourself and your energy, development and creation of yourself! In general, you have no other choice. And this is not accidental. It means that this is how it should happen according to your Soul Contract. You are going through some lessons separately at the moment, so that later, after some time, you can meet, meet in a new state and your relationship will exist on a new, higher quality level, because you will both be different.
And devote the feelings that you feel to yourself first of all. It is very important not to destroy yourself, to shift the focus of attention to yourself and your development. For as they say, we come to Earth in this body alone, and we will die alone. What you feel is love, joy and inspiration that belongs to you and it is FOR YOU. Therefore, yes, it may seem difficult that the person about whom you feel all this is not nearby and he/she cannot “appropriately appreciate” your feelings, you cannot express them physically, give the person that portion of care, warmth, affection and love that you would like to give and in return receive his unique, specific, so warm, desired and important for you energy.
Guys, but I want to once again emphasize that these are YOUR FEELINGS! You love! It is so pleasant and comfortable for you that you feel this! And, of course, you will forgive me, but you will need to switch the focus of attention to yourself! While your partner is not nearby and physically you cannot be together. Otherwise you will go crazy. Do you know why? Because our energy flows behind the focus of our attention and if you constantly, every minute think about your partner, worry, imagine and interest him and what he is doing there, it will be unbearably hard for you and in a few days/weeks you will be so tired that energy exhaustion, fatigue may begin, and then - a high risk of misunderstandings, even conflicts with the same partner and other people.
The point is that the focus of your attention is constantly not on you, but on that person. This is a problem in general, not only when you are in a long-distance relationship. But this is more a topic of dependence and codependent relationships, which I write about in my other articles.